Google may not have all the answers, but it’s often the first place people turn when curiosity strikes — especially when it comes to sex. It’s quick, discreet, and saves the awkwardness of asking someone directly.
Even though most of us received some form of sex education in school, plenty of questions still come up — and not everyone has access to a reliable expert or educator.
Topping the list: “How to have sex.”
Yes, really.
Here are the other most searched sex questions in the U.S., by average monthly searches:
- 8,700 searches — What causes pain during sex in females?
- 11,000 searches — I had sex then got my period. Can I still be pregnant?
- 11,000 searches — How to last longer during sex?
- 12,000 searches — Why am I bleeding after sex?
- 13,000 searches — Can you have sex while pregnant?
- 16,000 searches — What is oral sex?
- 18,000 searches — What is sex?
- 20,000 searches — Light spotting after sex. Could I be pregnant?
- 29,000 searches — How long should you wait to have sex after yeast infection treatment?
- Top search — How to have sex?
What does this say about America’s sex education?
Sex and relationship expert Alexa Johnston believes this trend speaks volumes. While it’s natural to have questions, turning to Google might not always be the safest or most accurate route.
“These searches reveal how universal our curiosities are,” Johnston said. “Whether you’re in New York or Nebraska, people share the same concerns. But the real issue is that too many are getting answers from unreliable sources instead of turning to health professionals or educators.”
She also expressed concern over the nature of many questions. “What stands out is how many searches revolve around health fears, not pleasure. That tells us a lot — we’re still lacking basic sex education and open dialogue about sexual wellness.”
Johnston emphasized that while it’s great people are seeking knowledge, they shouldn’t have to rely on the internet for vital information about their bodies. “We need more trustworthy, accessible resources — and we need to normalize conversations around sex and health.”
As for the number one question?
Johnston finds it telling. “It’s surprising how many people are looking up something so fundamental,” she said. Her advice?
“Good sex isn’t about a formula. It’s about communication, mutual consent, and comfort. Talk openly about boundaries, go slow, and check in with your partner. That’s the real starting point.”